like why have so many beautiful kind women i know had the same experience of being either ostracized out of envy or never approached out of fear. then they internalize it because they’re the common denominator 😭 STOPPPP please..
just loud and wrong . i feel like the art of argument is dying out we aren’t trying to reach conclusions or find common ground it’s just an “im right” competition where is the curiosity!
hyper-independence is also praised in black women and reinforces the idea that we shouldn’t expect care, empathy, and kindness from society so it’s a slippery slope